How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Was Daenerys' downfall inevitable after she left Meereen in Game of Thrones?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I took a video of my serve (60 FPS) and it took 0.4 seconds from my racket to the service line. How fast would you say my serve was?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why do Muslims not get HIV/AIDS in spite of having 4 wives and multiple relationships?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What I need from you?

Why do humans sweat while stressed?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

If sea levels were rising, wouldn't the acreage of coastal salt marshes increase? Are they?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why does it smell so bad? I noticed that when I move around my vagina has a stench. It’s usually a wet liquid, almost like pee. There’re little to no discharge and it doesn’t hurt or itch.

That's it for today.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What is the most offensive thing someone has ever asked you?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Ask yourself:

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I told my 13-year-old daughter that she should never start a fight, but has my permission to end it. She got suspended for ending a fight that some other girl picked with her by hitting her then retreating. How do I handle the school’s response?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.